Are you seeking to recover from relationship breakdown or a relationship in crisis; improve your relationship; feel more connected; enjoy more sexual intimacy and affection? Small conflicts have a habit of blowing up into massive arguments. As each day passes, you feel you are losing the happiness and love that first brought you together. Perhaps you are scared that if something doesn’t change, there may be no way back. However, everything you try results in a wall of resistance. You get shut-down, relationship breakdown is imminent as conflict escalates with anger and incessant arguments.
You desperately want to communicate without fighting. You want your partner to have same loving affection and connection that brought you together. You’re tired of feeling isolated and alone in your relationship. You can’t continue like this any longer. Maybe you’ve already consulted a lawyer about separation or divorce or maybe you have delayed that option in the hope that your marriage can be saved. My guess is that you are reading this now because you are seeking hope. When relationship breakdown reaches this crisis point, couples counselling can offer that hope… hope for a relationship based on connection, communication, intimacy and love. It’s time to take action and discover hope.
I know that this is a very lonely time and you may be confused about where to turn for help. However, I also know that your situation is not as hopeless as it may seem. I’ve worked with many couples who have lost the connection that brought them together, leading to major relationship breakdown, conflict and even affairs. However, I can assure you that you can move beyond such crisis and achieve a stronger and more connected relationship than you ever experienced before. I know this to be true because I have seen it happen over and over. That’s why I have chosen to do this fulfilling work. I really appreciate how valuable relationships are for ourselves and our children. They really do matter and I want to help you make your relationship and your life better.
When we work together, we will identify what is triggering the conflict of the relationship breakdown and develop solutions you can use immediately in your unique situation. I’m well aware that no two relationships are the same and I don’t have a formulaic approach. I meet each or you and your relationship where you are, so I can then help you to explore and create new possibilities for recovery and repair. If couples counselling for relationship breakdown is to be effective, you need a trained therapist who gets you, both as individuals and as a couple. That is my skill.
I invite all the couples I work with to provide extensive feedback on their experience and they consistently tell me that they enjoy my warm and empathetic approach. They also appreciate my challenging questions, wisdom and direction. However, the greatest feedback is that they find that their relationships improve quickly as they learn to manage conflict with virtue and love. I can also help you to heal past hurt and betrayal, reignite intimacy, deepen emotional connection and restore affection and fun. If this sounds what you’re looking for, I would love to hear from you.