RELATIONAL FLOW is a powerful alternative to traditional relationship counselling that gets results quickly… This is marriage counselling that will transform your relationship forever!
- Discover if your marriage can & should be saved
- Heal and recover after a painful affair
- Reignite the passion and start to enjoy your life again
…RELATIONAL FLOW is my core Relationship Recovery programme delivering a unique blend of couples counselling and coaching that quickly strengthens connection and enriches lives.
Give me just 8 weeks (or a 2-day residential intensive) and you and your partner will experience profound relational change.
How to save a relationship
Whatever stage your relationship may be at RELATIONAL FLOW will transform and revive your connection and the life you share together.
- Establish a road map for effective communication
- Transform your conflicts into catalysts for change
- Increase intimacy and passion
- Inspire you to explore how to create and sustain a long-term healthy relationship
Ten years of success at saving marriages
My programme has been delivered at 1 Harley Street London and online worldwide for over 10 years and I have refined and developed as a powerful alternative to traditional marriage counselling.
The cost of divorce is immense both in terms of the monetary impact but also the social and psychological impact on the partners and any children who may be involved. The consequences can be experienced for generations.
The statistics for the failure of a second and third marriage are much higher than 60% and often re-marriage can set off the same troubled patterns as before, but only more amplified and traumatic.
However, when you’re on the front lines of a marriage in crisis with infidelity, loss of trust and intimacy and constant conflict, the situation can feel desperate and hopeless…Divorce can seem like the only solution.
A powerful alternative to traditional marriage counselling
This is why I created my powerful relationship recovery programme called RELATIONAL FLOW. As a professional couple and family therapist, I have many years of experience of working with high conflict couples on the brink of divorce. However, I found that most traditional marriage counselling was either not effective or did not lead to lasting change, and in some cases, even made the situation worse.
Get results quickly!
RELATIONAL FLOW is designed to quickly (in 8 sessions or a 2-day intensive), help you to gain the clarity and confidence that you need to make the best decision for the future of your marriage. Within the first 3 sessions, I will help you to identify if your marriage can be saved and if there is a genuine mutual commitment to taking separation and divorce off the table and to staying together. You will then explore the unique couple dynamic you have created together.
You will gain profound insight into where you are now and how you got there. We will then explore your best hopes for the future, both individually and together. We’ll discover what works and the strengths and resources you each bring to the relationship. We’ll also discover what does not work so well and how these elements can be modified and improved.
Once we have established what works and what doesn’t I will focus on empowering you with the knowledge and skills to ensure you have both a road map and the resources you need to build a successful relationship
Communication, Trust and Respect
We will focus on communication, trust and respect and how to deal with conflict. You will learn how to argue effectively and when and how to stop arguing. Most importantly, you will rediscover and learn to respect the strengths and qualities that your partner brings to the relationship. You will explore how to connect with each other’s deepest selves and how to function as an effective couple and parenting team.
Over the 8 sessions or 2-day intensive we share together, you will become invested in each other’s shared hopes and committed to building a successful future for yourselves and your children. However, rather than lose yourself in the relationship, I will help each of you to reclaim your individual “higher self” and to become a strong differentiated individual with a greater sense of love and truth in your life.
Life changing outcomes
While RELATIONAL FLOW is designed to meet the unique needs of the couple involved, the outcomes are always profound and life-changing. Depending on individuals circumstances and history, RELATIONAL FLOW will strengthen the deepest connections of your relationship. You will learn how to dissolve conflict and reconnect as you and your partner learn to heal each other.
If there has been an affair, RELATIONAL FLOW will help you repair the loss of trust and reconnect with mutual trust and restored intimacy.
Even if you decide that your marriage can’t or should not be saved, RELATIONAL FLOW will help you to cleanse the toxicity that has come to exist in the relationship. This will enable you to create and maintain a civil and respectful connection going forward. This is especially significant if children are involved. We will work to ensure that you and your children maintain a loving relationship with both parents and that they can still flourish in the redefined family environment.
Discover new possibilities to connect and flourish
I believe every relationship we create is a sacred space where we enter the life of the other to experience healing and new possibilities to connect and flourish as individuals.
My sessions are filled with warmth and a sense of humour in place of safety. There is no judgment and empathic support. I recognise that you are the experts in your own lives and your relationship. The focus is always on your best hopes for the future and how to discover the strengths and resources you each already possess, how you bring those resources to the relational space and ultimately to ensure your shared best hopes become a reality.
My compassionate wisdom has helped numerous couples to rescue marriages from the brink of divorce and transform relationships. Let me help you to achieve profound relational change and create the life you never believed was possible.